I have just finished preparing for Sundays mastermind group and as usual, I am really excited about how much my members will benefit from another great speaker and a coaching session from me.
If you provide a service then you can't afford not to be surrounded by a group of like minded people who you can learn from, support and use as a sounding board.
This is what we have covered so far since we started in Feb 2011:
Know your niche
Develop your USP
How to use social media
Write a marketing strategy
Learn how to make a product to sell
Website enhancements
How to write compelling copy
Making the most of LinkedIn
Using twitter and blog to best effect
Co-coaching concepts
Branding (this week)
On top of that we have access to my colleague Dan Bradbury and faculty members of APCTC such as the fantastic Topher Morrison, Andy Harrington, Jarek Robbins and many more.
free membership to Association of Professional Coaches Trainers and Consultants is automatic when you join my group.
And the real beauty is that you can try it for free once, before making your mind up.
What more can I give you in order for you to get more clients and make more profit?
Book your place on www.apctc.com/Suffolk
Friday, 18 November 2011
Wednesday, 16 November 2011
Don't miss great speaker at my next Mastermind meeting this Sunday
This Sunday sees our ninth meeting since the mastermind group formed and things are hotting up!
Our guest speaker is Ivan Newman from Living In the Brand who is a much valued friend and colleague.
He will be talking about branding and then we will coach members on how to enhance their brand within their businesses. I know this is going to be so useful and powerful.
This year will be the only times I will be letting in first time visitors for free. So make the most of this fabulous opportunity to listen to a branding expert.
There will also be the usual question and answer session for members to support, offer advice or assist. This is the most valued part of our meeting and some great ideas have come forth. We continue to share knowledge between sessions and in fact my members get to attend my other workshops for free or with a huge discount.
Sign up on my page www.apctc.com/suffolk and look forward to seeing you!
Our guest speaker is Ivan Newman from Living In the Brand who is a much valued friend and colleague.
He will be talking about branding and then we will coach members on how to enhance their brand within their businesses. I know this is going to be so useful and powerful.
This year will be the only times I will be letting in first time visitors for free. So make the most of this fabulous opportunity to listen to a branding expert.
There will also be the usual question and answer session for members to support, offer advice or assist. This is the most valued part of our meeting and some great ideas have come forth. We continue to share knowledge between sessions and in fact my members get to attend my other workshops for free or with a huge discount.
Sign up on my page www.apctc.com/suffolk and look forward to seeing you!
Tuesday, 18 October 2011
New Workshop - Confidently help Your Teens pass their GCSE's
Having completed some research including surveys, I appear to have tapped into a much needed area with my next workshop.
I am about to deliver a brand new unique workshop for parents who want to practically and emotionally help their children to exam success.
This is a very difficult time for parents. There is a fine line between helping, empowering and interfereing in the year of revision, studying and taking the exams. If your children are going to take theirs in the next couple of years, then this is for you.
I have coached many teens on a one to one basis, but I feel it is much more effective, financially and long term to teach the parents the tools I use to help young people pass their exams.
in the 3 hour workshop, I will show you:
How to communicate to bring out the best in your teen's behaviour during this stressful time
How to practically help out subtlely without interfering
How to show them different ways of revising that are fun
How to coach your children to empower them and eliminate procrastination
Motivate and inspire
Top tips and tools that will help the whole family
Dates start in November. Price is £ 55 plus vat
The workshop will be repeated in the evening for those that work.
If you are interested then please contact me on nadia@naccoaching.co.uk to get yourself on preliminary list.
I promise to impress you with my unique style and quality of content and there will also be an opportunity for your child to receive a follow up discounted session from me nearer to their exams.
I am about to deliver a brand new unique workshop for parents who want to practically and emotionally help their children to exam success.
This is a very difficult time for parents. There is a fine line between helping, empowering and interfereing in the year of revision, studying and taking the exams. If your children are going to take theirs in the next couple of years, then this is for you.
I have coached many teens on a one to one basis, but I feel it is much more effective, financially and long term to teach the parents the tools I use to help young people pass their exams.
in the 3 hour workshop, I will show you:
How to communicate to bring out the best in your teen's behaviour during this stressful time
How to practically help out subtlely without interfering
How to show them different ways of revising that are fun
How to coach your children to empower them and eliminate procrastination
Motivate and inspire
Top tips and tools that will help the whole family
Dates start in November. Price is £ 55 plus vat
The workshop will be repeated in the evening for those that work.
If you are interested then please contact me on nadia@naccoaching.co.uk to get yourself on preliminary list.
I promise to impress you with my unique style and quality of content and there will also be an opportunity for your child to receive a follow up discounted session from me nearer to their exams.
Monday, 3 October 2011
Does my 'BUT' look too big?
I have been listening to some recordings from Topher Morrison, one of my favourite coaches and a colleague at APCTC.
He talks about the art of negotiation using NLP tools and reminded me about using the word BUT.
It took me a long while but now I rarely use the word but unless it refers to something I might be saying eg
I would love to go out in the sunshine but I have too much work
After much practice I now replace it with the word AND as much as I can because BUT just negates everything someone has just said to you! The word HOWEVER sort of does too but it not quite so obvious. So for example if a person is expressing an opinion you disagree with, the word AND will build bridges whilst allowing you to still add your opinion.
try it and see the difference when communicating....
He talks about the art of negotiation using NLP tools and reminded me about using the word BUT.
It took me a long while but now I rarely use the word but unless it refers to something I might be saying eg
I would love to go out in the sunshine but I have too much work
After much practice I now replace it with the word AND as much as I can because BUT just negates everything someone has just said to you! The word HOWEVER sort of does too but it not quite so obvious. So for example if a person is expressing an opinion you disagree with, the word AND will build bridges whilst allowing you to still add your opinion.
try it and see the difference when communicating....
Thursday, 8 September 2011
Stereotyping is just a 'shortcut' - Not a Crime!
When I finished reading Cialdini's The Psychology of Persuasion I was particularly satisfied with his final chapter which I will discuss further on in my blog. Before that, I would like to explain why I have titled this piece as I have.
In recent years it has become almost a crime to utter any sort of suggestion where we might be stereotyping. But to do this is to misunderstand one of our greatest gifts, which is to use our intuition and develop 'shortcuts' as Cialdini calls them.
Let me explain:
I truly believe that intuition is a result of millions of pieces of information that we take in, on a subconscious basis, especially if that is reinforced by personal experiences on a conscious basis. When we take an instant dislike to someone or an instant warmth to another human being, it is not down to just random thought processes.
Let's take hoodies for an example, one which is often mentioned. When I feel uncomfortable around a group of people wearing such clothes, it is not merely their headwear that will cause me to be vigilant, but perhaps a look in their eyes where I will see something that makes me feel uncomfortable and on edge. I have always trusted this gut feeling and it has rarely let me down. However this does not mean that I believe I am in danger, just I know my subconscious has computed something which I would be a fool to ignore. It's called survival!
If I take an instant dislike to someone, then I will look for all the evidence to show that I am wrong (yes I repeat, that I am wrong!). I believe everyone has good intentions unless they are in a bad place and I like to find that. Again though, I will eventually work out what it was that made me feel that I would not connect properly with someone because I accept that we will not all be able to work or play with everyone we meet, for all sorts of reasons.
Cialdini talks about the principle of social proof and where one of our shortcuts is to like things that 'people like us' would like too. This is how advertising works. This is, in effect, a form of stereotyping, don't you think?
He talks about things such as long queues outside clubs, that make us want to go in because we are made to believe it must be good, if so many people are doing this, only to find it is nearly empty when we go in. He calls this 'treachery' because it is harming our gift to create shortcuts. Something we need more and more of these days, with all the information that bombards us!
he suggests that we complain loudly when we see such trickery, in order that it is no longer effective and thus protecting the accuracy of our shortcuts. I have always said this and so totally agree.
I loved it, not just because he delivers this theory in such an eloquent and intelligent way but because it helps me to explain why stereotyping does not have to be a negative thing! Judgements are here to stay so let's just understand why we think and feel the way we do sometimes. And above all, never ignore your intuition!
In recent years it has become almost a crime to utter any sort of suggestion where we might be stereotyping. But to do this is to misunderstand one of our greatest gifts, which is to use our intuition and develop 'shortcuts' as Cialdini calls them.
Let me explain:
I truly believe that intuition is a result of millions of pieces of information that we take in, on a subconscious basis, especially if that is reinforced by personal experiences on a conscious basis. When we take an instant dislike to someone or an instant warmth to another human being, it is not down to just random thought processes.
Let's take hoodies for an example, one which is often mentioned. When I feel uncomfortable around a group of people wearing such clothes, it is not merely their headwear that will cause me to be vigilant, but perhaps a look in their eyes where I will see something that makes me feel uncomfortable and on edge. I have always trusted this gut feeling and it has rarely let me down. However this does not mean that I believe I am in danger, just I know my subconscious has computed something which I would be a fool to ignore. It's called survival!
If I take an instant dislike to someone, then I will look for all the evidence to show that I am wrong (yes I repeat, that I am wrong!). I believe everyone has good intentions unless they are in a bad place and I like to find that. Again though, I will eventually work out what it was that made me feel that I would not connect properly with someone because I accept that we will not all be able to work or play with everyone we meet, for all sorts of reasons.
Cialdini talks about the principle of social proof and where one of our shortcuts is to like things that 'people like us' would like too. This is how advertising works. This is, in effect, a form of stereotyping, don't you think?
He talks about things such as long queues outside clubs, that make us want to go in because we are made to believe it must be good, if so many people are doing this, only to find it is nearly empty when we go in. He calls this 'treachery' because it is harming our gift to create shortcuts. Something we need more and more of these days, with all the information that bombards us!
he suggests that we complain loudly when we see such trickery, in order that it is no longer effective and thus protecting the accuracy of our shortcuts. I have always said this and so totally agree.
I loved it, not just because he delivers this theory in such an eloquent and intelligent way but because it helps me to explain why stereotyping does not have to be a negative thing! Judgements are here to stay so let's just understand why we think and feel the way we do sometimes. And above all, never ignore your intuition!
Tuesday, 30 August 2011
Confidently help your Teenager pass their Exams
Yes honestly!
I am about to deliver a brand new unique workshop for parents who want to practically and emotionally help their children to exam success.
This is a very difficult time for parents. There is a fine line between helping, empowering and interfereing in the year of revision, studying and taking the exams. If your children are going to take theirs in the next couple of years, then this is for you.
Many schools now teach children about the Visual, Auditory and Kinaesthetic way we learn stuff. You may have even heard your child say 'hey, I am a visual person' etc. But what the schools do not do is show them how to use all their senses to enhance the way they learn and revise, and nor do they show parents the major part that they can play in the success of the studying strategy.
in the 3 hour workshop, I will show you:
How to communicate to bring out the best in your teen's behaviour during this stressful time
How to practically help out subtlely without interfering
How to show them different ways of revising that are fun
How to coach your children to empower them and eliminate procrastination
Top tips and tools that will help the whole family
The return on your investment will be such, that, you will be glad you decided to put your money where your mouth is. I am so confident about your experience that I will give you your money back if you are not satisfied.
The workshop will be repeated in the evening for those that work, and places will be limited.
If you are interested then please contact me on nadia@naccoaching.co.uk to get yourself on a list and hear first about the dates, venue etc in near future.
I promise to impress you with my unique style and quality of content and there will also be an opportunity for your child to receive a follow up discounted session from me nearer to their exams.
I am about to deliver a brand new unique workshop for parents who want to practically and emotionally help their children to exam success.
This is a very difficult time for parents. There is a fine line between helping, empowering and interfereing in the year of revision, studying and taking the exams. If your children are going to take theirs in the next couple of years, then this is for you.
Many schools now teach children about the Visual, Auditory and Kinaesthetic way we learn stuff. You may have even heard your child say 'hey, I am a visual person' etc. But what the schools do not do is show them how to use all their senses to enhance the way they learn and revise, and nor do they show parents the major part that they can play in the success of the studying strategy.
in the 3 hour workshop, I will show you:
How to communicate to bring out the best in your teen's behaviour during this stressful time
How to practically help out subtlely without interfering
How to show them different ways of revising that are fun
How to coach your children to empower them and eliminate procrastination
Top tips and tools that will help the whole family
The return on your investment will be such, that, you will be glad you decided to put your money where your mouth is. I am so confident about your experience that I will give you your money back if you are not satisfied.
The workshop will be repeated in the evening for those that work, and places will be limited.
If you are interested then please contact me on nadia@naccoaching.co.uk to get yourself on a list and hear first about the dates, venue etc in near future.
I promise to impress you with my unique style and quality of content and there will also be an opportunity for your child to receive a follow up discounted session from me nearer to their exams.
Tuesday, 23 August 2011
Mastermind meeting APCTC 4/9
Next months meeting of the Suffolk Association of Professional Coaches, Trainers and Consultants sees us focusing on great copywriting.
We will be welcoming Elspeth Taylor, from Taylor Made, to show us how to write a great campaign by letter, email etc followed by coaching from me and then the q&a mastermind session.
Visitors are welcomed for free on their first visit so if you are a fellow service provider then come along, you have nothing to lose.
Full details and sign up on
Www.apctc.com/suffolk
We will be welcoming Elspeth Taylor, from Taylor Made, to show us how to write a great campaign by letter, email etc followed by coaching from me and then the q&a mastermind session.
Visitors are welcomed for free on their first visit so if you are a fellow service provider then come along, you have nothing to lose.
Full details and sign up on
Www.apctc.com/suffolk
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